Memorial Day Weekend 2009

This was my first Memorial Day weekend as the wife of an active duty service member... And I'll say it: I was proud...

Apart from celebrating and remembering the lives of those who have made the ultimate sacrifice for the sake of our country, I was able to spend a few days in Charleston and meet my newest niece Eloise (and hold her a lot), visit with Lucy and Mary Beck (and play with them a lot) and fall asleep accidentally (a lot). I've been so tired... I'll blame it on the time-change, even though I had been on the east coast for a while by that point. Ha... However in my defense, it had been a very crazy week.

Onto the pictures.

Rach and Weezy

Me and all of the Temple girls

Me and Weezy

Punkin'

Adam and Maybay

First time holding Weezy

Officially Michelley Kelley

Woah, it's been an entire week since I blogged. Things have been busy, though. I haven't had a chance to just sit and breathe. Until now...

I got into town late Tuesday night and spent the night with Matt and Mary Neil and Diana... (no matter how many times I asked, Diana wouldn't scratch my back like Aaron does, nor would she spoon me... sigh... meany). We woke up early, ran to the airport to get my bags (because of course they lost them at Dulles...typical) and then met JoBeth and Bo at Gourmet Shop. Nan and I were both overwhelmed with his cuteness.

Mom picked me up and we drove up to the lake house where Marcus, Emily and Marjorie were waiting and we cooked out and hung out all night. So fun.

When I finally got into Columbia Friday, we had the bridesmaids luncheon, followed by the rehearsal dinner and then a little "out on the town" in Columbia--my ole pals Jeff, Jay, Madden and The Don came out to meet us- I hadn't seen them since the wedding and they were all in town (Madden was because he lives there, but the others had come from Charlotte, Charleston and Virginia...good times).

And then my camera died... way to go, Becca. So sadly, I got no pictures of the wedding itself or of the beautiful bride and her handsome husband. I'll steal some from others to post so you can see the cute couple. And evidence that Michelle Parsons has officially become Michelle Kelley... Such a fun weekend and such a fun wedding!

Goin' to Carolina...

...not even just in my mind. I'm actually going there.

I fly out of here in about 3 hours (if all goes well), connect in DC, and should arrive in Columbia around 2340 (there's a military wife for ya ;) ) I'm being picked up from the airport by Matt and Mary Neil and Diana, who just happens to be in town and will be leaving tomorrow afternoon. After a late night IHOP run with Nan, like back in the good college days, I have brunch tomorrow morning with Nan and JoBeth so Nan and I can meet Bo (JoBeth's baby who looks like one of the cutest kids around) and then I head to Augusta where my brother and sister-in-law will be arriving with Marjorie to visit! I head out of Augusta on Friday morning to start Michelle's wedding festivities, am there until Sunday and then head to Charleston Sunday to meet Eloise and then I fly out of Columbia early Wednesday morning.

Sheesh... I'm exhausted just thinking about it- but also so excited! Because of the wedding, so many of my friends will be in town and in one place so it will be fun to get to see everybody and of course to watch Meesh and Jay tie the knot.

Now... if I could just get over this paralyzing fear of flying, then I'd be well on my way to a good day :)

Heading Home

Less than 24 hours before I head to the airport to fly back to the most beautiful place on earth--the southeast. :) (I claim the entire region because I feel equally from Georgia and South Carolina and am indecisive...) I've got a lot to get done because this trip sort of snuck up on me. I think I was so distracted by the fact that Aaron "might" be getting home today that that was all I could think about. In a bizarre twist that almost NEVER happens (insert freakishly thick sarcasm here), Aaron's crew isn't making it home today. Maybe not even tomorrow. Which means I definitely won't see him before I leave and, with our great luck, he'll probably have to head out on another mission while I'm gone. Such is our lives... Only about 16 more years of this, so I guess I should just accept it, huh? ;)

Anyway, I have so much to get done before I leave. And I have a picnic to go to today at a house that's about 40 minutes from mine... which I need to make something for... which involves going to the grocery store... and I haven't even run yet today... and I need to leave here in about 2.5 hours.... therefore, I need to quit slacking and get started on this crazy day!

Weezie

The latest:

Hi all –

I’m happy to be writing you from home with Eloise right next to me. Although they haven’t been able to diagnose her condition, the doctors felt she could come home until the hematologists at MUSC begin caring for her on Tuesday. So, we were able to bring her home with heart and breathing monitors that make hideous noises when things get out of whack (which hopefully won’t be often).

As of this morning, her H and H numbers remain unchanged (good that it’s no longer declining, but still too low for comfort). Her PKU (newborn screening) came back normal which rules out a lot. More tests results are pending and more will be taken beginning next week. Unless something changes or we get a diagnosis, I’ll probably hold off on updates since we will probably not have anything new until Tuesday. Eloise continues to do everything normally – eat, sleep etc. so we’re hopeful her blood will begin healing itself soon even if that means we never find out why this happened.

Thank you all for your continued support and prayers,

Adam

SURPRISE!!!!

A house that was bustling with activity just hours ago is now totally silent (except for my iPod playing on the speaker system....) and Howard snoring (yes... he's only 4 months old and he's taken up snoring). Today was Brittany's birthday and we had a surprise party for her at our house tonight. It was tough just bold-faced lying to her about all of our friends and whether or not they'd be coming to her birthday dinner (which she thought would be at a pizza dive down by the Tacoma Dome with only Kim, Jill and myself in attendance). Brandon (her husband) left for a trip yesterday so he couldn't be here, but most everyone else that we contacted attended and after calling her to tell her that my car wouldn't start and I'd need her to come pick me up, she showed up at the door to a huge SURPRISE!!!! (and Brian covered in the alpaca fur on the floor, pretending to be a rug... and it actually looked sort of real).

We ate pizza and beer (the answer to her "If you could have any meal in the world, what would it be?" question Brandon had asked her last week to do a little P.I. work for us), ate yet another one of Kim's famous cakes (DELICIOUS) and concluded the night with hours of Rock Band. Yes.... hours.

All in all, a successful surprise party :) I love love love having people over to my house (most of yo know this....). Hosting guests is one of my absolute favorite things- not to mention that it definitely was fun to have so many bodies in a house that's otherwise been empty so much lately (apart from Howard and me).

Tomorrow night is the Taylor Swift concert. My sweet sweet husband surprised me with FLOOR SEATS to the concert and now has to miss it since he's still off on a mission, so Brittany is going in his place. It's at Key Arena in Seattle and should be a great time... per the usual, pictures to follow :)

Weezie Update

So many of you have been so sweet to email and call to ask for the latest on the newest little member of the family. I hope it's not too impersonal that I just keep copy and pasting Adam's email updates here - it's just easier to keep everyone informed and I post them as soon as I get them. Thank y'all for praying for them- I know they appreciate it!

Hi all,

I don’t have much new to report today so I’ll keep it concise.

As I previously wrote, yesterday was a good day for Eloise and we were hoping to be taking her home soon. Unfortunately, the blood tests that came back this morning showed that Eloise’s blood (her hemoglobin and hematocrit) had returned to the approximate levels as when she was born. While it’s a discouraging development, we remain hopeful that they will begin trending in the right direction. The hematologist that will see Eloise has ordered some more tests (more stuff we’re hoping to “rule out”) and those results should be coming back over the next week. They also decided to re-take some of the previous tests to see if there were any false negatives.

If you could see her, Eloise appears to be perfectly normal – she’s feeding, sleeping and doing all the other things a baby should do. We’re very thankful for that and continue to hope that her blood will simply remedy itself and we can bring her home soon.

I know I say this every email, but we are unspeakably grateful for your prayers and encouraging words. We know it makes a difference.

Thanks,

Adam